Courage & Following Your Dream

Hey, let’s talk about something real - courage.

Psychologist Rollo May, in his book Man’s Search for Himself, said the opposite of courage isn’t cowardice—it’s conformity. And that right there is the root of so many problems today.

Think about it. Conformity and group pressure push people to go with the flow, to act like everyone else without questioning why, without knowing where they’re going, without even setting a goal.

Ever seen someone say “yes” to every opportunity just because it flatters them—without any real plan for themselves? Maybe you’ve done it yourself. I know I have. Most of us have drifted at some point, unsure of where we’re headed.

Take a step back and really watch how most people live. Notice how they talk, walk, act, even dress—so much of it is just autopilot. Sound familiar? Be honest with yourself.

If this resonates, we’re about to have a powerful conversation.

Who You Surround Yourself With Shapes You

What influences your success more - your genes or your environment? When it comes to the path you’re on, your environment is everything.

Look at the people you spend the most time with. Are they living the kind of life you want? If not, it’s time to be intentional. Surround yourself with people who are already doing what you aspire to do. This isn’t about being better than anyone—it’s about being true to yourself and finding your tribe.

Many people never take the time to understand themselves, and their self-image reflects that. They might look just like someone who’s thriving, but in their minds, they don’t see themselves succeeding. And that’s why they’re stuck.

Be careful who you spend time with. Mindsets are contagious.

Be the Star of Your Own Movie

Bob Proctor put it perfectly - why would you settle for being an extra in your own movie?

You should be the star. You should take action instead of sitting on the sidelines, waiting for the lights to go out.

Even if you don’t have all the answers right now, trust yourself. Act like the person you’re becoming.

Here’s a question for you:
How do you want to be described when you become the person you truly want to be?

Picture it. What does that version of you look like? Feel like?

This isn’t just some feel-good talk—this is your life. The only one you get.

Not Everyone Will Get It—And That’s Okay

When you start reaching for more, some people won’t like it. They’ll say you’re trying to be something you’re not. Some might ridicule you. Some might stop talking to you altogether.

Why? Because your ambition makes them uncomfortable. Many of them don’t have dreams of their own, so they’ll try to pull you back down to where they are.

Here’s a tip: don’t share your dreams with just anyone. Not until you’ve built momentum. Protect your vision from negativity. No one else is walking in your shoes—they don’t know what’s driving you. So why would you take their advice?

For example, say you want to buy a beautiful new home. Someone might scoff, “What’s wrong with your old place? Not good enough for you anymore?”

Expect this. Build mental strength. At first, it might sting. Then you’ll realize: it’s not about you—it’s about them.

Like Attracts Like

You attract what you radiate. If you’re stuck in negativity, guess what? You’ll attract more negative people, because misery loves company. That’s why you need to shift to a positive mindset—now.

Look at the most successful people. They surround themselves with others on the same frequency. They go to the same places, have the same habits, and push each other to grow. This isn’t a coincidence.

So how do you create that kind of environment? How do you put yourself in rooms filled with inspiration, motivation, and support?

Simple: Join a community that will elevate you.

Let’s Take the Next Step

I invite you to be part of Thinking Into Results—a proven program designed to help you break free from limitations and step into your full potential.

If you’re serious about changing your life, let’s talk.

Book a call here:
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Let’s make your dream a reality.

Best,
Claes